There are kind of magical people, those who push you off the cliff and make you mad, they don’t ask for permission (some people ask for forgiveness), they are regular spoilers, and they stop autopilot unknowingly. The instrument of sailing is it.
How healthy and important it is to sometimes break the balance! In the short drama you can let go control and put aside the massive tombstone of “should”, eliminate any initiative and eliminate spontaneity. Annihilate life, quietly.